Valentine’s Day, celebrated each year on February 14, is a widely recognized holiday in the United States. While it is often associated with romantic relationships, Valentine’s Day has grown to encompass many ways to express care, appreciation, and friendship.
For international students who may be experiencing this holiday for the first time, here is an overview of what Valentine’s Day is, why it is celebrated, and how it is commonly observed in the U.S.
What Is Valentine’s Day?
The origins of Valentine’s Day can be traced to ancient Roman and early Christian traditions, particularly to stories associated with St. Valentine, a figure known for acts of compassion and devotion.
Why Is Valentine’s Day Celebrated?
Over time, the holiday evolved into a celebration of love and connection. In the U.S., Valentine’s Day is less about religious observance and more about celebrating relationships and emotional bonds in everyday life.
How Is Valentine’s Day Celebrated in the U.S.?
Valentine’s Day celebrations in the United States vary widely depending on personal preferences, relationships, and cultural backgrounds. Some common traditions include:
- Exchanging cards and notes: Many people give Valentine’s Day cards, often featuring messages of love, gratitude, or friendship. Children in U.S. schools frequently exchange cards with classmates as part of classroom activities.
- Giving gifts: Popular gifts include chocolates, candy, and flowers (especially red roses). These gifts are widely available in stores leading up to February 14.
- Spending time together: Couples may choose to celebrate by going out to dinner, watching a movie, or enjoying a shared activity. Restaurants and entertainment venues are often busier than usual on Valentine’s Day.
- Celebrating friendships: In recent years, many people have embraced Valentine’s Day as a time to celebrate friendships. Friends may exchange small gifts, share meals, or spend time together, sometimes referring to the day as a celebration of friendship rather than romance.
- Self-care and personal traditions: Some people use Valentine’s Day as an opportunity for self-care, such as treating themselves to a favorite activity, meal, or experience.
Valentine’s Day on Campus
At U.S. universities, Valentine’s Day is often marked by themed events, activities, or giveaways organized by student organizations and campus offices. These events are typically optional and meant to be inclusive, offering opportunities for students to connect, relax, or learn more about U.S. culture in a casual setting.
A Day to Celebrate Connection
While Valentine’s Day is highly visible in the U.S., there is no single “right” way to celebrate — or to choose not to celebrate at all. For international students, it can be an opportunity to observe an aspect of U.S. culture, participate in campus activities, or simply learn how different cultures express care and connection.
Whether you spend the day with friends, a partner, or on your own, Valentine’s Day in the United States is ultimately about recognizing and appreciating the relationships that matter to you.
Join Us for a Valentine’s-Themed Campus Event!
Looking for a fun and low-pressure way to take part in Valentine’s Day on campus? International Student & Scholar Services invites you to attend the Valentine’s Crafting Event on February 11 from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at the Student Activity Center (WCP 2.120).
At the event, students can make their own friendship bracelets or keychains while connecting with others. Whether you come with friends or on your own, the event is a great opportunity to celebrate friendship, creativity, and community.
Learn more about the event details and how to participate on the Texas Global Events page.
This blog post was contributed by Sarah Chiu, program coordinator on the Intercultural Programs and Initiatives team at ISSS.
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